Flat lay of necklaces from the Game on To End Lupus collection

Necklace Lengths 101: How to Find the Perfect Fit

So, you’ve fallen in love with a necklace, but there’s just one problem. How long should it be? Should it sit close to your collarbones like a whisper, or drop low like a pendant plucked from a forgotten realm?

Whether you're layering multiple chains or looking for the one that completes your look, picking the right length makes all the difference. Let’s break it down.

The Basics: Standard Necklace Lengths (and what they actually look like)

Necklace chart for lengths
  • 14" – Choker: Sits high on the neck. Great for dramatic energy or layering with longer pieces. Think: bold, regal, powerful.
  • 16" – Short/Collarbone Length: Rests just at or above the collarbone on most people. The go-to classic—ideal for everyday wear and soft statement pendants.
  • 18" – Princess Length: Slightly below the collarbone. Universally flattering and perfect for pendants with presence.
  • 20–22" – Matinee: Hangs around the top of the bust. Great for deeper necklines and layering under shorter pieces.
  • 24–30" – Opera: Long and dramatic, often worn over clothes. Dreamy, flowy, statement energy.
  • 30"+ – Rope/Lariat: Bold and versatile—knot it, loop it, layer it. Feels a little sorceress planning her escape at dawn.

Choosing a Length That Works For You

Black onyx choker necklace

Everyone’s neckline, proportions, and vibe are different—here’s how to tailor your choice:

  • Petite or short neck? Try 16–18" to elongate your frame.
  • Fuller bust or broader chest? 20–24" often sits best without getting lost.
  • Layer lover? Start with a 16" base and build down in 2–4" increments. You’ll want contrast between pieces.
  • Wearing high necklines or chunky knits? Go long—24" or more will drape beautifully.


Aesthetic Matters: Match Your Mood & Magic

Australian opal leviathan pendant

Let’s not pretend this is only about measurements, this is vibe curation.

  • Cottagecore sweetheart? A 16" floral or crystal pendant feels just right over a soft blouse or dress.
  • Mystical adventurer? Go for layered 18–24" chains and charms—like you’ve collected them over a dozen quests.
  • Elven elegance? A long chain with a crescent pendant or drop stone worn with off-the-shoulder silks or structured cloaks is pure fantasy.


Bonus: Adjustable Chains Are Your Best Friend

This is low-key magic! Whilst most of my necklaces come with fixed chain sizes, if you connect two together (connect one clasp to the other’s hook), then you can make the chains adjustable to the lengths you like to stack each pendant. Easy peasy, Elven breezy.

Still Unsure?

 TL;DR – The Cheat Sheet

  • 16" = everyday staple
  • 18" = perfect for layering and pendants
  • 20–24" = elegant over clothes
  • 30"+ = statement, dramatic, storytelling piece

Choose your vibe first, then the length that matches. If you want some help in finding the perfect fit, reach out to me on Contact Us or drop me an email!

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